I couldn’t stand my dementia grandma calling me her husband, but the truth hit my**.

This was supposed to be the year of exams, friends, and plans for the future.

Instead, I was at home, watching my grandmother slide deeper and deeper into dementia.

Every day, she confused me with her late husband, George, and it drove me crazy—until one unforgettable day, everything changed.

My grandmother, Gretchen, had not been herself for a while.

She was forgetful, confused, and her health was failing.

Mom and I knew something was wrong, but convincing Grandma to see a doctor was nearly impossible.

She was stubborn, insisting she was fine, but after much begging, we finally got her to go.

After several tests, the doctor gave us the diagnosis: dementia.

I remember Mom’s face as the doctor explained that there wasn’t much that could be done.

Medications could slow the progression, but they couldn’t stop it.

We had to prepare for the inevitable.

That same day, we decided that Grandma would come live with us.

After Grandpa George passed away a few years ago, leaving her alone wasn’t an option.

It was the right thing to do, but it didn’t make things any easier.

That night, I tried to study for my final exams, but I couldn’t concentrate.

Then I heard her, whispering to someone, crying.

I walked to her room, my heart heavy.

She was talking to Grandpa as if he were there.

It broke me. But what could I do?

As the months went by, Grandma’s condition worsened.

Some days, she didn’t know where she was or who we were.

Every time she forgot, it hurt.

One morning, I came downstairs to find Mom scrubbing the kitchen counters, exhaustion evident on her face.

“Did Grandma move everything again?” I asked, already knowing the answer.

Mom didn’t stop scrubbing.

“Yes,” she answered softly.

“She woke up in the night saying the plates weren’t hers and the cups were different.

I tried to explain that nothing had changed, but she wouldn’t believe me.”

I patted Mom on the back, not knowing what to say.

“It’ll be okay,” I whispered, not sure I believed it myself.

Later, when I came home from school, the house was quiet.

Mom was still at work, but I heard footsteps upstairs—Grandma was still moving things.

I found her in the kitchen, rearranging the cupboards.

When she saw me, her face lit up.

“George! You’re back!” she exclaimed, rushing toward me with open arms.

My stomach knotted.]

“No, Granny, it’s me—Michael, your grandson.”

She didn’t hear me.

“George, someone’s moved all the plates again.

Was it your mother? She’s always changing everything.”

I stood there helplessly.

“Granny, I’m not George. I’m Michael.”

Her smile disappeared.

“George, stop saying those weird things.

You’re scaring me.

You promised to take me to that beach date.

When are we going?”

I sighed, heartbroken.

“I don’t know, Granny,” I whispered as I left the kitchen.

When Mom came home, I told her what had happened.

She smiled sadly.

“You look so much like him,” she said.

I frowned, confused.

“Whose?”

“Grandpa,” she said.

“When he was young, you could have been twins.”

I’d never seen a picture of Grandpa when he was young, so Mom took me up to the attic.

She dug through some old boxes and gave me a photo album.

I opened it, and there it was—Grandpa George, looking exactly like me.

“Is that him?” I asked, turning the pages.

Mom nodded.

“You know what I mean?”

I stared at the pictures.

I looked too much like him.

That night, I couldn’t stop thinking about it.

Grandma didn’t just mistake me for George; in her world, I was him.

But the more I thought about it, the more frustrated I became.

Every day she called me George, and every day it broke me down more.

One afternoon she called me George again, and I broke down.

“I’m not George! I’m Michael! Your grandson! Why don’t you get that?”

Mom looked up from her chair.

“Michael, she doesn’t get it anymore.”

“I don’t care!” I yelled, my voice shaking with anger.

“I can’t take it anymore!”

I grabbed my jacket and stormed out of the house.

I didn’t know where I was going, but I found myself at the cemetery where Grandpa was buried.

I sat down by his grave, feeling the weight of everything crushing me.

“Why aren’t you here?” I whispered, looking at his headstone.

“You always knew what to do.” »

I stood there for hours, lost in memories of Grandpa.

I remembered when I was little, putting on his jacket and telling him I wanted to be like him.

He laughed, pride shining in his eyes.

The memory made me smile, even through the tears.

When I finally got home, Mom was waiting for me.

She looked at me, her face lined with worry.

“After you left, I took Grandma to the doctor,” she said softly.

“They said she didn’t have much time left.”

I hugged her, unable to find the words.

But in that moment, I knew what I had to do.

The next day, I put on an old Grandpa costume and took Grandma to the sea.

She was silent, lost in her own world, but I had already set up a small table by the beach.

The sea breeze was cool and the waves were soothing.

I helped her out of the car and led her to the table.

I lit candles, their flickering light casting a warm glow.

“George! You remembered our date at the seaside,” Grandma said, her face lighting up.

“Yes, Gretchen,” I said, sitting down next to her.

“I never forgot.”

She smiled, happier than I had seen her in years.

That night, I served her the pasta Grandpa was making.

She ate slowly, and for a moment, I saw a glimmer of joy in her eyes.

After dinner, I played their favorite song.

“Want to dance?” I asked, holding out my hand.

She nodded, a soft, tender smile on her face.

“Of course, George.”

We danced by the sea, and for the first time in a long time, she was at peace.

Two days later, Granny passed away.

The house seemed emptier than ever, but deep down, I knew she was finally with George, where she belonged.

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